I’ve traveled a lot in throughout my 31 years of life, but must admit, that this trip has been the hardest, both emotionally and physically. Maybe I’m just out of practice or out of shape! Honestly though, despite being the hardest, it has been by far the most rewarding. I was only in Kpando for one month, but felt like I developed a true connection with the kids at the orphanage. The minute I met them, I knew I was doing the right thing. They are all so very special.
I feel fortunate that I was paired with Baby, Mawusi and Missahoe Charity House. I couldn’t have asked for better people to stay with. They took care of me as a daughter, friend and sister. Not to mention that Mawusi is an amazing cook! She cooked local dishes in the likes of fufu and banku, as well as salads, chicken, anything you would ask for. Their warm hospitality had me quickly forgetting about the bucket that I had to use for a toilet, and the 100 degree heat that I had to bare without AC or fans!
There were a few cultural differences that I had to overcome during my stay. When I witnessed something I didn’t agree with, I had to constantly remind myself that I came
to Ghana as a volunteer to help the children, not to change the culture. I learned to accept the differences, but I’ll never agree with them. Regardless of this, I think Ghanaians are some of the nicest people I have ever met. I could tell that they really appreciated my efforts. Everyone was eager to help me. When I first arrived in the village, some locals were shaking my hand saying “Welcome.” Others even said “Thank You!”
When I wasn’t at the orphanage, I was teaching at the L.C. Boys Primary School. Most of the boys from the orphanage went here, so I got to spend a lot of time with them. I loved it, the kids were great. They were all so enthusiastic about learning. Some of the boys were brilliant. I wish the government was more concerned about their education. I saw some real potential, but the lack of money will most likely prevent these boys from a higher education. It makes me so sad.
So all in all, it was an amazing trip. I overcame all my obstacles, not for myself, but for the sake of the children. They taught me that it was possible. They taught me a lot actually. Leaving them was heartbreaking. I feel selfish for coming into their lives for such a short amount of time. I wish I could stay with them longer. They have left a lasting impression on me, and I hope that I have done the same for them.
Vanessa Ziegler
Austin, Texas – USA
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March 2008